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Our discreet guides help you recognize the subtle signs of infidelity, understand your options, and find the clarity you need to move forward.
Recognize Signs
Learn to trust your intuition with factual knowledge. We detail the common behavioral patterns and subtle signs associated with a cheating partner.
Gather Information
Move from suspicion to certainty. Learn about digital forensic tools and communication strategies to ethically gather the information that you need now.
Plan Confrontation
Prepare for one of life’s most difficult conversations. We provide guides for confronting your partner calmly and deciding your next steps.
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You are not alone in this painful situation. Our private community offers a safe space for support, along with expert legal resources.
Noteworthy
Your guide to navigating the difficult suspicions of infidelity. Find answers and support with our most direct and insightful articles today.

Uncover the Truth: How to Catch a Cheater
Learn discreet strategies to detect infidelity. Empower yourself with information to confront suspicions and find clarity.
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Emotional Infidelity, a Key Tactic to Save the Marriage
Hearing that your cheating spouse is “in love” with someone else is devastating. I hear often, “I can handle her having sex with someone else. I think…
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7 Legitimate Motives for Spying
Should you spy on your cheating husband or wife? You believe you see signs of a cheating spouse. The need to know whether your spouse is cheating…
Truth Seekers: The Infidelity Investigation Process
Learn about professional infidelity investigations. Understand how experts gather evidence to confirm or deny suspicions of cheating.

Spying on a Lover
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Infidelity, Spying is Not Revenge
Do not use what you find on your cheating spouse as ammunition for revenge. Sure, you may have wonderfully violent fantasies of what you would really like to do to him/her and the other person. This is very normal. But, don’t act them out. Using what you find to extract revenge will only lengthen the time of…
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Infidelity Investigation
If you have your suspicions that your partner is having an affair, but for your own peace of mind you need to be sure about the infidelity, investigation is an option but, before you go out and hire a private investigator, make sure that you know what you are getting yourself in to. There is no doubt…
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Cheating Husband or Wife
When you spy on your suspected cheating spouse, please make sure you consider all the possibilities you might encounter and whether you can handle them. Have you considered the many situations that spying might uncover? Can you imagine the worst thing you might find? Predict what your response will be to the worst-case scenario. Are you ready?…

Beyond Vengeance: Spying Is Not Revenge for Infidelity
Understand that spying, when done, should be for clarity, not retaliation. Separate the act of information gathering from seeking revenge.
Signs of a Cheat
Learn to recognize the subtle and obvious signs of a cheating partner. We provide a comprehensive checklist of suspicious behaviors to look out for.
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Signs of a Cheating Spouse
The signs of cheating can vary for each individual. Some people are just plain better at deception…
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Infidelity, How My Marriage Made Me Do It
Ask someone why they had, or are having an affair and you may hear something like this:…
Beyond Blame: Did Marriage Lead to Infidelity?
Delve into the complex factors that might contribute to infidelity within a marriage. Understand the dynamics of a broken bond.

Surviving an Affair
Find guidance and support for surviving the aftermath of an affair. We offer advice on healing, rebuilding trust, or moving on successfully.
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Relationship After Cheating, Will It Survive
The relationship after cheating has occurred is not a cozy place to be. Can it go on? Will it survive? Do you want it to continue? Obviously, each party in the relationship will have their own ideas about what to do and what not to do. If you are the person who cheated, you, of course, will…
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Characteristics of the Adulterer
“I Want to Get Back at Him/Her” is one of 6 kinds of affairs I outline in my E-book. This is the “revenge affair.” It occurs in a marriage in which one feels slighted in some manner and seeks revenge by engaging in an affair. It is less a movement toward the other person and more a…

Deeper Bonds: Emotional Infidelity to Save Marriage
Understand emotional infidelity as a potential symptom, not just a problem. Explore its role in relationship dynamics and saving marriages.
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